Walt, I was a bit surprised by the note, as well, but I've spoken with Fred, and think he was just trying to get some discussion going and prompt a bit more interaction. The not driving on the hay (quite a stretch, since that one car-width path around the sink-hole that had developed in the normal path from the rains) seemed a bit odd, but with the hole filled, we're back to the straight & narrow path. There was no other way to get to our side, and that one car wide strip of grass wasn't really harvestable hay, anyways.
I am a heli-only guy, but very much enjoy the company and interaction with the plane side and frequently wander over to watch and chat, and thoroughly enjoy it when the plane guys come over to the heli field to see what we're up to, as well. Could we heli-guys be more social? Sure. Could we pitch in more with field maintenance? Definitely. Are we trying to be anti-social and isolationist? I don't think so, but it makes sense to keep trying to maintain the club unity with a bit more interaction. Our club is pretty unique with having two fields, and I think, has a really good relationship between the heli and plane guys, partly from not having the competition for air time that other clubs do without a second field. That's something for the club to be proud of and to keep going.